oh Joan, now I'M gonna cry too ....

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Posted by iZ's mom on November 15, 1998 at 18:57:01:

In Reply to: Re: OH NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!! posted by joan on November 15, 1998 at 15:39:46:

please don't blame yourself!!!! sometimes really shitty things just happen .... you can second guess yourself and replay what you "should have" done, etc. etc. but DON'T!! you don't deserve the beating you're giving yourself - REALLY YOU DON'T!!!!
we all know what an excellent "ig mom" you are!!!! look at all the research and planning you did BEFORE Merlin even came to your house!! you are a GOOD "MOM"!!! it's just that sometimes really bad, awful things happen and there is NO reason for it, NO body to blame .... that's what makes them so awful .....
give Merlin a kiss and go snuggle up on your hubby's shoulder and have a good cry and get some sleep .... that's all you can do right now ....
i'm so sorry you're so sad and hurting .... i wish i could give you hugs and hot chocolate and a big blankie to snuggle in .... all i can do is tell you i really do know how you feel and i wish i could make it go away for you .....
hugs and chocolate for you and your family in the meantime .....
iZ's mom
(Bon.)

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Special thoughts and prayers are sent your way Merlin......msg to Joan Iguanamomma 11/15/98 (0)

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: please don't blame yourself!!!! sometimes really shitty things just happen .... you can second guess yourself and replay what you "should have" done, etc. etc. but DON'T!! you don't deserve the beating you're giving yourself - REALLY YOU DON'T!!!! : we all know what an excellent "ig mom" you are!!!! look at all the research and planning you did BEFORE Merlin even came to your house!! you are a GOOD "MOM"!!! it's just that sometimes really bad, awful things happen and there is NO reason for it, NO body to blame .... that's what makes them so awful ..... : give Merlin a kiss and go snuggle up on your hubby's shoulder and have a good cry and get some sleep .... that's all you can do right now .... : i'm so sorry you're so sad and hurting .... i wish i could give you hugs and hot chocolate and a big blankie to snuggle in .... all i can do is tell you i really do know how you feel and i wish i could make it go away for you ..... : hugs and chocolate for you and your family in the meantime ..... : iZ's mom : (Bon.)

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