This looks to be a situation where you are willing to dish out critisism but not willing to accept any. Therefore, you have learned to play the part of "VICTIM" very well. "Oh poor me, look what the mean scientists and his friends are saying about me." One more comment. If you take scientific critisism personally and respond as if it is a personal affront to you and not the quality of your work, you are going to make the issue a personal one, as it looks like you have succeeded in doing.