Congratulations! Isn't it so exciting to watch that trust develop? With time and patience (and respect for your tokay!), you'll get to the point where you can hold him.
Here is a picture of my very sweet, very large tokay - Anise.
Good Luck with yours! Lisa
:Just wanted to thank you guys for the advice... My tokay (he is definitely a male by the way) is starting to tame down. I'm at the point that I can put my hand in the cage next to him without any agression, and can actually stroke his back for a second. He still decides to turn around and give me a squeeky warning bite, but not a knock down dragged out death hold anymore. Thanks! If I ever get to the point I can hold him long enough for a picture I'll post. :Have a great Easter everybody!