Eve, After reading your post and your very nice E-mail, I would have done the same. I wasn't trying to upset you or ruffle feathers.. I just want to find a home for this Male...5 pairs takes a lot of time for feeding and two gravid females adds to the pot. On top of that our bearded dragons are gravid again and we are getting breeding out of out Alligator lizards. We just want to find him a home where someone will take care of him.